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A Simple Path – To Stumbling on Happiness

By on Apr 05, 2015

Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections. – Unknown

What makes you happy? Not what you think makes your happy, but what you know makes your happy.

I stumble to find my answer every day.


If there’s a poster child for overthinking, it would be me.

I overthink what people say to me, and what they don’t say. Ordinary decisions, like picking out which shirt to wear, require careful deliberation. Also, imagining my life five or ten years into the future isn’t an innocent case of thoughtful planning; it’s about trying to predict each nuance and every detail needed to be happy while forgetting there’s a now to be happy in, too.

So, what about now?

Don’t I deserve to be happy today?

Don’t you deserve to be happy today?

The answer is, yes.

To both questions.

That’s where the stumbling part comes in.


Every now and then I’m able to silence my hyper-analytical mind and listen to a part of me that is less manic and seldom wrong – my inner voice. It never lies. My inner voice is able to rise above the nonsensical noise that fills my head. This voice knows what makes me happy.

It captures my attention by reminding me of this simple truth: Happiness isn’t a choice that’s waiting down the road; it’s a choice that is waiting now. And if I take one more step, I’ll stumble right over it:

  • I’ll stumble over the present moment and the joy it holds.
  • I’ll stumble over knowing my children are warm, safe and well.
  • I’ll stumble over Mary Beth’s love.
  • I’ll stumble over the pride of being the person I am today.
  • I’ll stumble over my rock-solid faith.
  • I’ll stumble over the power of kindness.
  • I’ll stumble over the start of a new baseball season.
  • I’ll stumble over a courageous decision.
  • I’ll stumble over early-morning workouts.
  • I’ll stumble over making a difference.
  • Sometimes the simple path to stumbling on happiness begins with being aware that we can get so caught up with looking for happiness that we don’t even realize we are tripping all over it.

    Sure, I would like to be a multi-millionaire, full-time writer who lives on the beach, but that’s not the plan for me right now. I’m a middle-income, full-time executive, part-time writer who lives in the Midwest.

    And you know what?

    I’m happy.

    Even on the days when I overthink; and always on the days when I stumble.

What is A Simple Path?

This post is in A Simple Path, a series of short pieces inspired by my own life experiences. Each post is a simple path to experiencing something wonderful: maybe seeing life from a different perspective, or celebrating its beauty. Please be sure to check out my book on Amazon: 20 Simple Paths to an Amazing Life.

The BridgeMaker Founder Alex Blackwell is the author of Letting Go: 25 True Stories of Peace, Hope and Surrender. Join the community to connect, share and inspire: Twitter | Facebook | More Posts

  • Marko

    You must consistently find productive ways to improve yourself, as well as your life in general. Positive thinkers don’t allow external factors, such as the opinions of other people, bring them down and cause them to become unproductive. They don’t let negative people influence them into becoming unproductive, lazy, or ineffective.
    “Follow These 101 Self Help Tips To Find Your Motivation and Reach Your Goals.”

  • Haha, this post made me laugh. So so true. Happiness is everywhere once we start tuning into it. Thanks Alex!