This I Believe

I can’t believe that God put us on this earth to be ordinary. – Lou Holtz

This I Believe
There are no accidents without value. No matter how difficult the circumstances in life, we can grow and learn from what happens to us – everything happens for a reason. Taking the time to find the value in these events is up to each of us.

This I Believe
You cannot change or heal what you do not acknowledge. For real and lasting growth to occur, we must first come to terms with our reality and see it for what it really is in order to reframe it and learn from it.

This I Believe
Happiness is a choice. Each day we can either choose to face the day with a positive attitude or allow the obstacles and setbacks to overwhelm us and make us anxious and angry.

This I Believe
Love can be eternal. While it’s true no one can make you happy, you can feel happiest about yourself when you are with someone who gives you the time and space to bring out your best.

This I Believe
We all have a purpose in life. To find your purpose, make a list of all the things you want to accomplish in your life. The one that jumps off the page and makes you begin to cry is your purpose.

This I Believe
Life and learning is a process. Try to avoid saying you can’t do something, instead, state, “I have not learned how to..,” or “I’m learning how to…”

This I Believe
Never give up. The day you quit is the day before the goal or task is accomplished.

This I Believe
We measure our progress in life incorrectly. Instead of measuring where you are now to where you want to be, measure yourself from where you have been.

This I Believe
It’s OK to make and have money – a lot of money if you wish. Your character is not defined by how much money you make; your character is defined by what you do with the money you make.

This I Believe
As parents our main responsibility is to nurture and protect our children. We also have the responsibility to break the cycle of any harm, dysfunction or pain we experienced as children. I believe our jobs as parents are to make our children’s life better than our childhoods. The real payback occurs when our children do likewise as parents.

This I Believe
Always love your partner and always fight fairly when disagreements occur. It is never acceptable to strike your partner – ever. Listen to their point-of-view and then offer your own. Remember, would you rather be right than happy?

This I Believe
Living a happy and fulfilling life is more about the “what” than the “how.” Focus on “what” you want. The “how” will reveal itself naturally over time if you fully commit to the “what.”

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4 Responses to “This I Believe”

  1. CG Walters on December 6th, 2008 8:45 pm

    This I believe: Truth is but a resting place until the next revelation.

    Thank you for this sharing, Alex.
    Blessings to you and your dear family,
    CG

  2. tony on December 11th, 2008 5:13 pm

    Some goodly wisdom here, marriage & family values that count.
    Esp. I like this bit; As parents our main responsibility…
    We’re working thro’ hurts from past and finding freedom at last; growth and healing are processes that we cannot speed. Have you read “How People Grow” by Drs Cloud and Townsend?

  3. Giovanna Garcia on December 31st, 2008 10:29 am

    This is a very inspirational post! My favorites are “we all have a purpose in life, and never give up!” I really enjoyed reading it.

    Thank You,
    Giovanna Garcia

  4. brian on January 2nd, 2009 3:22 am

    Thanks for this great post! I have printed it and will carry it in my wallet to remind me of it’s wisdom.

    Thanks…

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