How to Leave the World a Little Better
The true meaning of life is to plant trees, under whose shade you do not expect to sit. – Nelson Henderson
Christians believe St. Peter, who was one of the 12 original Disciples of Christ, stands in front of the gates to heaven and is charged with the responsibility of announcing, upon our deaths, who is entering heaven and who is not.
The belief is we are not guaranteed a spot in heaven – we have to earn it. Only upon hearing our names called, are our souls allowed to enter into a blissful eternity.
Conscious self-examination
How we live our lives, how we love the ones closest to us, the honesty we demonstrate and the choices we make all determine if we will be included on St. Peter’s list (or some other list for that matter). Conscious self-examination is needed on a daily basis otherwise we run the risk of missing out on something wonderful.
Regardless of your religious beliefs, and even in the absence of any spiritual connection or association, each one of us has the responsibility of leaving this world in a little better condition than how we found it.
Brother looking after brother and sister looking after sister helps to ease the pain, suffering, oppression and disappointment we experience. To continue to live, exist, and survive in this world, and in the next world, humans need one another.
There are many places we can look to find the code, the answers, we need when it’s time to pass from this life to the other. However, as complex as life gets at times, the best answers can also be the least complicated.
The following reminders provide a blueprint for this simplification and provide some examples for how you can prepare to leave the world a little better:
- Share
Yes, share the cookies and the toys, but also share your experiences, your fears, your accomplishments your love and your heart. Others will benefit from what you have learned. - Play Fair
Remain honest and tell the truth. Seek opportunities for mutual gain with the people in your life. Lift others up and be mindful of their needs as well as your own. - Don’t Hit
Violence and aggression are only temporary measures to get someone’s attention and obedience. True and lasting respect is earned by listening and responding appropriately. None of us have the right to force our will upon someone else’s. - Care More
Respect what belongs to others. Care for the things you have in your life and watch them continue to grow and flourish. - Make Your Own Bed
Take 100% responsibility for your actions. We are responsible for the decisions we make and we are accountable to our family and friends for our words and deeds. - Show Respect
Honor the boundaries set by others. Don’t claim ideas or thoughts that are not your own. Allow love to happen naturally. If it goes away, don’t grasp it so tightly you damage, or kill its spirit or potential to love again. - Say You’re Sorry
Be humble and show regret when appropriate. Ask for forgiveness and allow your soul to be cleansed by the healing it offers. - Allow Self-Care
Take good care of yourself. Fill yourself up with what gives you the most energy and the most passion. Self-care is just as important as caring for everyone else in your life – you are just as worthy to receive the warmth it provides. - Live a Balanced Life
Work hard and play hard, too. Follow your heart’s desire while you provide the basic necessities. - Stick Together
Life is meant to be shared. You have the responsibility to watch over others and to help keep them warm and safe. The human bond, the human connection, requires this from us.
No regrets
Like everyone else, I not sure how much time I have left. Rather than living with fear or regret, I choose to embrace each day and live each day to its fullest the best that I can. I’m also preparing for my eventual reality.
When the moment arrives my hope is I won’t be waiting to hear if St. Peter calls my name. Instead, I will walk in the direction of his voice.
Upon hearing my name, I will stop. I will take a brief moment to acknowledge my efforts and the value I offered. I will say a prayer of thanksgiving as my soul moves into the light to begin its next journey.
Life does continue for all of us – we just have to remember to live a little better along the way to find peace in that life.
How will you leave the world a little better?
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14 Responses to “How to Leave the World a Little Better”
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Hi Alex,
This post is lovely. I hope to leave this world a little better. I hope to be remembered for my good character and honest nature. I may not be remembered for any great acomplishments, but I do believe I’ll be remembered for being a good person & that’s enough for me! Thanks so much for all the positive things you do Alex!
Alex, another wonderful post from you.
I just love the way you have made it clear how simple it is to make the world a better place.
And how will I leave the world a better place? Simple – I’ll just be ME and I’ll share all my amazing gifts.
Dandy, good character and honesty drips all over you! And, yes, being a good person is more than enough.
YOU is exactly what we need Arvind.
Being naturally talented and attracted to children I know that one of my mission is guiding them the best way I can to help them start their human adventure as shining souls. The more interesting part of the mission, is that those children are themselves my own teachers, and inspired by them I can help myself and others I meet on my path of life to rediscover the shining souls that we are meant to be!!!
I bless life being in connection with the children, because for me they connect me to The Divine. Bless them always…
I know may be I will not see how I will leave the world, but when the children and myself start planting seeds of love, joy and peace together…I believe this is a beautiful world!!!!
Character equals integrity and integrity means
you always do what is right — even when no one is watching
you. It means that fear and guilt are all but eliminated from your
life because you have nothing to hide and nothing to hold you
back from achieving success in the true definition of the word.
Danielle, your mission sounds wonderful. As a father of four children, thanks for your gifts and for making a difference.
Yes, even when one is watching Andrew – well said.
As I leave this world to a better place I hope that the seeds I have planet do take root. Jesus is my guide. I can never be perfect as he was, but I can try to be the best I can be, because I know that my savior does live and will be waiting for me.
Hearing St. Peter call my name is a new one for me, so I guess I’ll just keep planeting my seeds of wisdom that I have been blessed with and let God take care of the rest. He knows best when it comes to everyone.
I do my best to live by the “Golden Rule” even when others do not.
I believe in leaving the physical and spiritual world in a better place then it was when I got here.
We are all merely temporary stewards on this planet called earth. We should respect her and one another.
Debbie, yes, keep planting! What you are growing is amazing – for this world and for the next.
Respect is a wonderful expression of love Justin!
Thank you Alex and blessing to you and your beautiful family. I love reading the seeds you are planting. Have a wonderful evening and blessing to you again. Debbie
Hi Alex,
The St Peter thing is a nice anectdote however my take is that God lives within us and if any “assessment” is to be made then it’s during our road trip of Life. However that aside, the examples that you give are fully supported by me.
I love to share and I truly care about people and the environment and our animal life. I feel by ‘living at my best’& passing this on to my children can only enrich rather than degrade our world.
Be good to yourself
David
You’re wonderful Debbie.
There’s no question David that your actions are enriching the world. Thanks for sharing your opinion!
Great “rules” to live by…..
Just remember…man will not get into heaven by works alone!
And by what’s in our hearts, too Carolee.