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How to Leave the World a Little Better

By on Jan 09, 2013


The true meaning of life is to plant trees, under whose shade you do not expect to sit. – Nelson Henderson

Christians believe St. Peter, who was one of the 12 original Disciples of Christ, stands in front of the gates to heaven and is charged with the responsibility of announcing, upon our deaths, who is entering heaven and who is not.

The belief is we are not guaranteed a spot in heaven – we have to earn it. Only upon hearing our names called, are our souls allowed to enter into a blissful eternity.

Conscious self-examination

How we live our lives, how we love the ones closest to us, the honesty we demonstrate and the choices we make all determine if we will be included on St. Peter’s list (or some other list for that matter). Conscious self-examination is needed on a daily basis otherwise we run the risk of missing out on something wonderful.

Regardless of your religious beliefs, and even in the absence of any spiritual connection or association, each one of us has the responsibility of leaving this world in a little better condition than how we found it.

Brother looking after brother and sister looking after sister helps to ease the pain, suffering, oppression and disappointment we experience. To continue to live, exist, and survive in this world, and in the next world, humans need one another.

There are many places we can look to find the code, the answers, we need when it’s time to pass from this life to the other. However, as complex as life gets at times, the best answers can also be the least complicated.

The following reminders provide a blueprint for this simplification and provide some examples for how you can prepare to leave the world a little better:

  • Share
    Yes, share the cookies and the toys, but also share your experiences, your fears, your accomplishments your love and your heart. Others will benefit from what you have learned.
  • Play Fair
    Remain honest and tell the truth. Seek opportunities for mutual gain with the people in your life. Lift others up and be mindful of their needs as well as your own.
  • Don’t Hit
    Violence and aggression are only temporary measures to get someone’s attention and obedience. True and lasting respect is earned by listening and responding appropriately. None of us have the right to force our will upon someone else’s.
  • Care More
    Respect what belongs to others. Care for the things you have in your life and watch them continue to grow and flourish.
  • Make Your Own Bed
    Take 100% responsibility for your actions. We are responsible for the decisions we make and we are accountable to our family and friends for our words and deeds.
  • Show Respect
    Honor the boundaries set by others. Don’t claim ideas or thoughts that are not your own. Allow love to happen naturally. If it goes away, don’t grasp it so tightly you damage, or kill its spirit or potential to love again.
  • Say You’re Sorry
    Be humble and show regret when appropriate. Ask for forgiveness and allow your soul to be cleansed by the healing it offers.
  • Allow Self-Care
    Take good care of yourself. Fill yourself up with what gives you the most energy and the most passion. Self-care is just as important as caring for everyone else in your life – you are just as worthy to receive the warmth it provides.
  • Live a Balanced Life
    Work hard and play hard, too. Follow your heart’s desire while you provide the basic necessities.
  • Stick Together
    Life is meant to be shared. You have the responsibility to watch over others and to help keep them warm and safe. The human bond, the human connection, requires this from us.
No regrets

Like everyone else, I not sure how much time I have left. Rather than living with fear or regret, I choose to embrace each day and live each day to its fullest the best that I can. I’m also preparing for my eventual reality.

When the moment arrives my hope is I won’t be waiting to hear if St. Peter calls my name. Instead, I will walk in the direction of his voice.

Upon hearing my name, I will stop. I will take a brief moment to acknowledge my efforts and the value I offered. I will say a prayer of thanksgiving as my soul moves into the light to begin its next journey.

Life does continue for all of us – we just have to remember to live a little better along the way to find peace in that life.

The BridgeMaker Founder Alex Blackwell is the author of Letting Go: 25 True Stories of Peace, Hope and Surrender. Join the community to connect, share and inspire: Twitter | Facebook | More Posts

  • A wonderful list of what really matters. I liked Carmello’s observation about the steps from a child’s perspective to a more mature one. Very insightful!

  • Isn’t it also amazing how these great examples and tips you give also enrich our daily lives? Eternity and “rewards” are also moment by moment realities when we follow the path you describe. 🙂

    • Well said Carmelo. After all, our lives are determined one moment at a time – how we share them and we live them.

      • So true. I don’t know if it was intentional (I suspect it was) but I noticed how your “steps” moved you along from a type of child’s perspective and admonitions to a more mature approach. That underlying current made the post very effective! 🙂

        • Thanks for noticing. I can’t wait for the steps to learn…

  • beautifully said friend Alex! perfect post for today when our moon is in Venus!

    • Nancy – I take your work that our moon being in Venus is a good thing. If it’s about Big Love then it is a good thing! Thanks so much for stopping by today.

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